"Love her, love her, love her! If she favours you,
love her. If she wounds you, love her. If she tears
your heart to pieces—and as it gets older and
stronger, it will tear deeper—love her, love her, love her!"
That speaks volumes to me. Being a woman means being a person of a myriad of complex layers. It means thinking introspectively and constantly. It means just when you think you understand yourself, you have to figure out which layer it is that you understand and move on to the next one from there. Being with a woman means knowing that you will never fully understand her...so don't try...that she is so worth having that you should not wonder who she is, but just be grateful that she is with you and shares herself with you, so just...love her, love her, love her.
Now, that is not to say that men don't have many layers as well because as humans we have that in common, but let's face it, women are not only complex to others, but to themselves as well. We battle with hormones, which cause mood swings that we don't always understand and we nurture everyone and take care of responsibility...children, spouses, parents, colleagues, work, bills, home, friends and family. We wonder about everything all the time and we are harder on ourselves than anyone else will ever be.
What I wish to convey with this post is this...women are amazing and with all we go through it is imperative that we be less judgmental and more forgiving of ourselves and extremely accepting and loving of who we are. This applies to both men and women in general but women tend to be tougher on themselves and have unrealistic expectations at times.
Stay positive and stay focused on your dreams and goals and never give up. Lighten your load by letting things happen as they may and adjusting to change with a positive attitude, finding the can instead of the can't...finding the will instead of the won't and finding the do instead of the don't. Most importantly, and this is tough for a lot of us super women (I know it is for me), ask for help when you need it. Don't take on everything by yourself. Find people to help you and find a support system to talk it out when you feel stressed. Holding things in causes disease (disease) and that will surely slow you down.
Be healthy..be happy...be positive...love yourself first, last and foremost. You are worth all good things.
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