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Friday, February 20, 2015

DON'T SAY THE "RIGHT" THING...


How many times a day do you answer the question, "How are you?"  On top of that, how many times do you answer that question with a "pat" or "standard" answer like, "fine," or "good," or "not bad?"

Once I started breaking free of my hum-drum, I decided to answer that question with only positive adjectives, using only those that would be considered out-of-the-ordinary.  Now, when people ask, "How are you?"  I say, "fabulous," or "Awesome," or "stupendous."  Not only does it break the monotony, but you should see the looks on people's faces, not to mention their responses.  Some smile and laugh and say, "good for you," and others look astonished.  There are even those who roll their eyes, but those are the people I smile at and go about my day because they are clearly not in a positive space yet and hopefully my smile and positive response made them think a little about becoming more positive or at least waking up a bit.  Most people are asleep much of their lives.

Sometimes it is difficult to come up with enough interesting words to answer the, "how are you," question, so I have come up with a list using the alphabet (except X), in order to help you get started:


Awesome
Amazing
Astounding
Beautiful
Blessed
Calm
Cool
Delectable
Delightful
Divine
Fabulous
Fantastic
Fascinating
Great
Grand
Gorgeous
Happy
Harmonius
Healthy
Humorous
Inspired
Invincible
Jolly
Joyous
Kooky
Knowledgeable
Lucky
Lovely
Magnificent
Marvelous
Miraculous
Nifty
Optimistic
Outstanding
Phenomenal
Quirky
Quizzical
Radiant
Remarkable
Stupendous
Sensational
Superb
Tremendous
Thankful
Unbelievable
Valuable
Voracious
Wonderful
Worthy
(Let's face it, there is no word for X)
Youthful
Zany

Zesty

Here's wishing you a stupendous day and a tremendous life, filled with positive outcomes, fulfilling dreams and attainable goals.  Break free of your hum-drum and make each day special and unique.

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Wednesday, February 18, 2015

BANGING YOUR HEAD AGAINST THE WALL???

Why do we do it?  Why do we continue to live in set patterns, even though they make us feel like we're banging our heads against the wall.  The majority of us get "stuck" in these routines, much of which do not make us happy...ever.  The first one that comes to mind is the all-too-familiar "go to work...eat lunch...go home...go to sleep...repeat."

I used to be that way but it bored the crap out of me.  Here is what I do now..."go to work...take lunch with me while I walk downtown and hit the antique stores and/or farmer's market...go back to work and try to make people laugh while I work...get off work and go to my journal class at my favorite art-gathering-store-place or find a great place to get new and unusual healthy foods while I talk to every stranger as though they were long, lost friends...go home...write in my blog and/or my journal...go through my affirmations and/or do an art project...watch something funny and/or positive on the tube...drift off to sleep.  The next morning, if I am so blessed with one, I will change it all up.

Whatever you have in your life that feels dull and routine and just downright unsatisfying...quit banging your head against the wall and change it up.  You CAN have a wonderful day, but YOU have to change it...I guarantee you it won't happen without your conscious effort.  Eventually, you are going to become a person you like again...someone you can greet in the mirror and smile at, knowing that you care enough to treat yourself with respect.

Thank you for taking the time to stop and visit and please, if you like what you've read, leave a comment. If you have a blog or website of your own I would love to visit it. After your comment, make sure to post your link and I will stop by and leave a comment as well. Happy blogging.

Sunday, February 8, 2015

HAUNTINGS IN COOS COUNTY, OREGON...

I love "ghost" tracking and one of the things I liked best about going to Bisbee, Arizona, was the ghostly legends and original architecture.  Well, I am happy to report that I have found that here in my new digs as well, in Coos County, Oregon.  The following article was submitted on another website by a local reporter...I can't wait to check these places out:


Spooky Legends and Haunted Locations

By Mike Chavez
As I have come to find out, Coos County has a few legends that provide some chilling scenarios for the curious. Here are a few more presumed haunted locations in Coos County. Explore if you dare.

McAuley Hospital, Coos Bay

Built in 1925, this was originally the Wesley Methodist Hospital. Years later, it was acquired by the Sisters of Mercy and renamed The McAuley Hospital. In 1982, it was remodeled to begin a new life as the Ken Keyes College. Since then, it has changed hands several times and has been vacant at times. People who have visited this building claim to hear footsteps, disembodied voices and some have even been pinched by ghosts.
Reportedly, the scariest location in the building is the Surgery Room. Rumors of deranged doctors experimenting on their wards and patients retaliating or taking their own lives in desperation, make this location a petrifying visit….If you dare of course.

Hell House, Sand Dunes North Bend

There is a site in the sand dunes outside of North Bend that was formerly used as an old Coast Guard Barracks. The building has since been completely demolished and consumed by the grounds around it. At one time though, the derelict structure was reportedly used by witches in training to conduct rituals and cast spells on unwary victims. According to local storytellers, before the building completely disappeared, there were pentagrams and symbols painted on the walls throughout with an alter in the biggest room covered in black candle wax. Visitors and ghost hunters to this site hear strange noises and feel uneasy and sick. Others say that they feel like they are being watched by several eyes from the heavy dune brush.

Ghost Horse, Sand Dunes North Bend

Another ghostly character that roams the sand dunes near North Bend is the fabled “Ghost Horse” which aimlessly roams the sand dunes looking for who knows what. Several witnesses over the years have reported seeing the horse in the distance, but when they try to get a closer look, the animal disappears. Others have said they witnessed the horse at close range and it appears to be transparent or skinless. Unfortunately, most sightings of the Ghost Horse have been around the Hell House location. So, good luck with that adventure, its not for the faint of heart at any level.

Sea Cave, Bandon

Beautiful Bandon by the Sea with its gorgeous drift wood beaches and decadent candy stores has a scarier side. On the beach front, near Bandon there is a sea cave. People who enter this cave safely at low tide have claimed to hear a female voice singing a Gaelic lullaby. One rumor suggests this ghostly woman is singing to her child who was lost in the cave while playing. The child was trapped by high tide as the incoming waters rushed in cave and drowned the child. Local ghost hunters say the best time to hear the woman is shortly after high tide has peaked and the water is receding from the cave.

Powers Cemetery, Powers County Park

Witnesses have reported for years seeing floating spectral lights and hearing voices while braving a walk on the loop through the cemetery. During the day, this location is an interesting find with headstones dating back 100 years. However, at night people report an air pressure drop just in the location of the cemetery and then the voices begin. On one occasion, a visitor reported hearing what sounded like a horse drawn carriage and several people weeping. We can only imagine this was a spectral funeral procession with one of the locals being laid to rest…or unrest in this case.

Tioga Building, Coos Bay

Contributed by Laura Schier
Laura Schier was with a ghost hunting club (PSI Oregon) that was fortunate enough to investigate the Tioga building on two occasions. Once in the basement area and once on the second floor where there is an old ballroom.
The ballroom itself is magnificent with it’s vaulted ceiling that is classically painted. As I looked out the second floor windows, I could vividly imagine the town as it looked back in the day, when it was still Marshfield. Personally, I did not experience much activity on the second floor, though other team members were able to record unfamiliar voices on their recorders.
Strange noises were heard, but we could not rule out natural explanations for most of them. The basement, on the other hand, was pretty interesting. An almost constant sense of being not just followed, but studied, by something or someone as curious about us as we were about them. Never a bad or creepy feeling…just the understanding that we were probably not alone. Many unexplained noises, shadows and even a few voices were heard with our own ears, as well as on our recorders.
Author Note: If you do want to explore these sites please get permission from landowners and make sure that you are entering a safe area. We hope you enjoy your visit to Coos County and Happy Ghost Hunting!

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Saturday, February 7, 2015

KEEP YOUR EYE ON THE PRIZE…

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In life it isn’t always making your dreams come true that matters most, it’s having the dreams in our lives, the goals to work toward and the positive changes to strive for and dream of, that really keep us going. 
I believe it is more the quest than the capture.  Think about a time when  you have had a goal and reached it, yes you are excited and happy and your life is changed for the better, but then you feel a little empty, maybe a bit sad even, and you don’t really know why.  It is because we all need that dream, that goal of positivity and happiness to strive for.  Without dreams and hopes in our lives, it just kind of misses the whole point.  Life is about working toward things and figuring out how to do that in a loving manner, not only loving others, but more importantly, loving ourselves in the process.
When you reach low times in your life, try to keep your eye on the prize.  Know that you WILL reach your goal if you want it bad enough and know that the changes will bring you exactly what you hope to get out of them, but more importantly, know that once reached, they will be replaced with new, positive goals, hopes and dreams. 
Never give up.