Skip to main content

Posts

Showing posts from January, 2018

HOW TO GET OUT OF THE HABIT OF JUDGING PEOPLE...

I have written a few posts about judging others but today, I stumbled upon a blog who shared such wisdom on the topic, with so many effective ways to learn to erase the judging habit within yourself, that I just had to share.  The one thing we need to learn, and it is the hardest lesson of all, is that judging others always and ultimately leads to harming ourselves in the process.  I still struggle with this bad habit, but have found a creative way to stop and check myself each day.  I set a reminder on my phone app and it goes off three times throughout a day and asks, "Are you judging?"  It helps me to stop and ask myself in that moment if I am currently judging or if I have been judging others earlier in the day.  It really shows you how much we judge practically everything and everyone on a daily basis.  Of course, not all judgments are bad ones but the good ones are called compliments :). As I stared at the word "JUDGE" I had written on a piece of pap