I
had planned on writing a post about toxic people, who they are and
why you should get them out of your life and quick, however I decided
that I would rather focus on the other side of this coin...the
positive side...the people you should
have in your life, who they are and why you should have them there.
We
all have so many different aspects attached to who we are and what
makes us up as a whole, however your strongest trait and the way
people see you, whether positive or negative, is generally the label
they slap on you. For example if you complain a lot your friends may
label you a whiner or complainer...if you always ask for help but
never take advice or try to change, you may be labeled a sponge, etc.
Obviously two types that could be detrimental to your being positive
if they are influential.
The
following is a list of ten types of people you want
to have in your life:
1. GIVERS
& SHARERS.
These are people who value your time and give freely of theirs.
People who know that successful friendships require a fair amount of
give and take on both ends and are willing to give as well as take in
equal amounts.
2.
PRAISERS.
These are people who will tell you how proud they are of you and how
much they love you and offer you support and love no matter the
circumstances. They praise you and pat you on the back for whatever
you do. They appreciate you for who you are and they realize that
who you are comes with down times as well as good times.
3.
SURVIVORS.
These are people who, even though bad things happen to them as they
do all of us in life, see themselves as survivors, not victims.
Survivors want to put the past behind them and move forward, often
with your help and understanding. They are thankful for what you
offer them in the way of friendship and/or advice and help and will
always see the positive side of every situation to the best of their
ability.
4. POSITVE
OUTLOOKERS.
These are people who see the positive side of a situation. They
give positive advice and keep their chin up no matter what
transpires. They know the value of seeing the positive version of
things and stay focused on that path.
5. CALM
AND PATIENTS.
These are people who are calm and patient, obviously (hahaha). They
don't get rattled when things don't go their way, they hold their
temper and they are there for you no matter how confused you are or
how many times you need to talk and work things out with their help.
They are true friends and will stick by you at any cost. People
outside of the realm of calm and patient have the potential to zap
your strength and use up your energy.
6.
EMPATHICS.
These are people who embody empathy for everyone. They are able to
understand how life might be in your shoes and in your particular
situation. They have either already been where you are or had
similar experiences and will never judge you.
7. HONESTS.
These are people who don't lie. Let's face it, we all tell white
lies and often in order to not hurt those we care about. Honest
people are no different in this sense but they tell their friends the
truth about themselves and they hold true to their morals and values
keeping honest to themselves as well as to you.
8. LET-IT-BE'ERS.
These are people who will let you be who you are because they love
who you are and never try to manipulate you. No one ever really
accepts someone for every single trait they have, but let-it-be'ers
will always let you be you whether or not some things about you may
drive them nuts. They don't try to control every situation and they
can let things roll off of their backs.
9. NICE.
These are people who are nice, not mean. They go to great lengths
to help you and make sure you know they are on your side. They are
not selfish and they treat you with kindness and respect. They say
nice things as opposed to criticizing.
10. LEMONADE
MAKERS.
These are people who meet stress head on and make lemonade out of
the lemons from the stress. They don't even see things as stressful,
but rather changes in life that they simply adjust to and move on.
These people will always help you see the positive side of each
situation and can help you eliminate negative thought patterns.
As
for anyone outside of this list, you may want to consider whether
their presence in your life is beneficial or detrimental. In order
to change for the better and get your life where you want it to be
and to be successful, you need to surround yourself with people who
embody positive and forward-thinking attributes. You may not have to
immediately eliminate old friends from your life however, if you have
tried and tried to get someone to change with you and follow your
new, ever-changing and growing lifestyle and they just refuse no
matter the efforts, it's best to move on from them and replace them
with people who will be on the same vibrational level you are as well
as the same path. Having respect for yourself means making decisions
that benefit you on every level, especially those you let into your
life and those you let stay. If they don't have your best interests
at heart and it is clear they are using you, it is best to wish them
a fond farewell.
Be true to who you are in the
best and most positive sense of the word, after all when it all comes
down to it, you are your own best friend and that is as it should be.
Anyone you let in from here on out should consider a privilege to be
there.
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